a coined variation of the
phrase iron hand in a velvet glove, meaning
absolute or inflexible firmness concealed by mildness or gentleness in approach.
Mailed means clad in mail, a flexible
defensive armor consisting of small, interlinked metal rings or
chain-
work. The
phrase iron hand in a velvet glove contrasts the hardness of
iron with the softness of velvet. It is referenced in one of Scottish historian
Thomas Carlyle's (1795- 1881) works where he
states, "Soft of
speech and manner, yet with an inflexible vigour of
command ...'
iron hand in a velvet glove,' as
Napoleon defined it." Thus, it appears
Napoleon Bonaparte (1760-1821,
French general and emperor) originated it." The
phrase, however, has also been attributed to other rulers.