occurs when you "coax" a person to talk after he has begun with a nod or a low "yes" you
ack, make him
forget, then make him believe you haven't
got it and then make him tell you at great length. He feels bad and doesn't
cognite and may
ARC break. Any
habit of agreeable noises and nods can be mistaken for
acknowledgement,
ends cycle on the speaker, causes him to
forget, feel
dull, believe the listener is stupid, get
cross, get exhausted explaining and
ARC break. The
missed withhold is inadvertent. One didn't get a chance to say what one was going to say because one was stopped by premature
acknowledgement. Result,
missed W/H in the speaker, with all its consequences.
(HCOB 7 Apr 65)